the nature of midlife anxiety.
is the misalignment of the worldly scale with the rhythm of life. I asked DeepSeek, is 40 the lowest point in life?
He said that 40 is the best intermission in life.
Only, some people have gone through a thousand sails to revitalize, and some people have sunk to the bottom and disappeared into oblivion. In the middle age, which is not living a life of chicken and dog?
A day of chicken feather from the morning from the heart.
Alarm clock woke up the drowsy middle-aged people, began to urge the child to hurry up and get dressed, this side of the scrambled frying burnt eggs, the other side to help the child to find another sock.
It is not easy to send the child away, I deal with two mouthfuls of nonsense to rush out to work, and then encountered a bad traffic jam.
After a long day, I can’t help but clock into my workstation, and then I’m busy all day long, either PUAing others or being PUAed by others.
After nine hundred and ninety-one difficulties to return home, just comfortable to eat a bite, turn your head to counseling the child was so angry that almost heart attack.
A brush of the circle of friends, either on vacation in foreign countries, or to make the business big, the only one hiding in the corner, as if a loser.
Lying on the bed at night, I thought hard about this life, in the end, what do you want?
In the morning, when I opened my eyes, I was shocked by myself in the mirror, white hair and a lot more, and there are three high. The flab around the waist is like a welded iron plate, how to get rid of. The middle-age dilemma is like a wet net, silently enveloping every middle-aged person in his or her 40s.
Some people call it the darkest hour of life, but I think it’s more like a spotlight from fate, forcing us to read the script of the first half of our lives and then rewrite the lines for the second half.
The essence of middle-age anxiety is the misalignment between the worldly scale and the rhythm of life.
Society always loves to use the stereotypical label of thirty and forty to divide life, but ignores the fact that everyone’s life has its own rhythm and time zone.
Zhang Songwen only became popular at the age of 45 after a wild ride, and Haruki Murakami only started running at the age of 33 and became a novelist. Those mid-life crises labeled as failures are actually just life’s way of reminding us that it’s time to change the way we live.
The ability of middle-aged people is that they can treat their troubles like chopped onions and sprinkle them into the frying pan.
When medical reports and KPIs are pressed on our workstations at the same time, we start to regain our health codes by sweating in the park trails at six in the morning.
Those light music enjoyed on the way to and from work, late at night when working overtime with health tea in hand, why not belong to the romance of this age? After a friend was optimized by the company, he opened a private kitchen, and with the connections accumulated over the past twenty years, he started a membership catering system, and his business is booming!
After her daughter resided in school, she picked up her paintbrush, and this year she actually held a personal painting exhibition, which gained her a lot of praise.
When we are no longer obsessed with who I should be, we can see more clearly who I can still be.
Middle age is like a small station on the way to climb a mountain, not the end, but the perfect place to adjust the breathing and re-plan the route. Those who cry all day long that middle age is not as good as a dog probably haven’t yet discovered the surprise eggs hidden in life.
The 74-year-old Zhao Yazhi is even more skillful than the 00-year-olds in playing on Jitterbug.
The 62-year-old Ye Tong’s role as Xu Xian on the theater stage still makes people’s hearts beat faster.
They have long since lived their age as a dynamic variable that can be adjusted at any time They can be a knowing older sister today and a rebellious teenager tomorrow.
This is what is the reverse growth, is clearly to understand the life of the cheat code When you see through the rules, you can customize the game mode.
When collagen began to lose, the real muscle of life is revealed. That is Su Dongpo, a Demoiselle Demoiselle, the openness of the life, but also every ordinary middle-aged people in the parents in the short of the existence of the philosophy of cultivation. Standing at the age of 40 halfway up the mountainside looking back, once those young anxious about not being able to, now seem like a joke.
Worried about learning new skills too late? Chu Shijian 74 years old before he began to plant oranges, planted the famous Chu orange
Feeling too risky to change the track, J K Rowling published Harry Potter at the age of 32, but opened a global magic storm.
The advantage of middle-aged people lies precisely in the calmness after seeing the wind and waves, the sobriety after trial and error, as well as no longer demanding perfect open-mindedness.
They can accurately control the emotional memory, with the school district housing and fitness card to build a buffer zone between reality and ideal.
Just like those uncles in the gym I often go to, when they are jerking iron, they are not talking about the rise and fall of stocks, but how to assemble model rockets for their children.
This balancing act, cultivated between diapers and statements, is more advanced than any science of success. Middle age is not the beginning of the downhill slope, but the awakening moment of life to get rid of the shackles of the social clock, and begin to really live according to their own rhythm.
What is hidden in the wrinkles is not only the traces of age, but also the medals given by time.
Next time someone thinks 40 is the trough of life, you can put the thermos cup to the table, dislike him Know why they say ginger is old and spicy? Because the young ginger simply do not understand, only through the torrential rain of the rhizome, in order to brew the most flavorful life pulp.
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